Everyone, both men and women, enjoy the ecstasy of having
someone go down on them. There’s very little that can go wrong when it comes to
giving oral, but it’s definitely an added perk if the person giving oral knows
what they are doing.
Shockingly, according to Sex & Psychology, a whopping “97.1% of men and 95.4% of
women said that receiving oral sex was at least somewhat or very pleasurable.
This means that just 2.9% of men and 4.6% of women did not find it pleasurable
to be orally stimulated.”
Receiving oral from someone who knows exactly what you like
can mean the difference between a mind-blowing experience or just an “okay”
experience. While you don’t want to diminish your partner’s confidence, there
are a few surefire ways to help them get the picture when it comes to your
personal oral sex preferences!
Before you tell someone about your oral sex preferences, you
have to actually know what you like! For example, while some men like to feel
some teeth scraping during oral, other guys absolutely cringe at the thought of
someone putting their teeth on their penis.
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Know Their Limitations
Know your partner’s limitations and be mindful of easing
them into more intense oral sex acts. For example, someone who is a beginner
may need some time to work up to deep-throating practices. You wouldn’t want to
go in too quickly and create a negative lasting aversion in relation to oral
sex for your partner.
Model With Fingers
One of the sexiest ways in which you can teach your partner
about your oral sex preferences is to model what you like. Conveniently, your
lesson on oral sex can even double as foreplay. Stimulate your partner’s senses
by using their finger as a model for what you want them to do to you down
below. Lick, suck, and nibble to demonstrate what you like when it comes to
oral sex, and watch as things heat up!
Positive Reinforcement
Being overly critical of your partner will kill the mood
altogether. If your partner is going down on you and uses too much teeth, try
to playfully direct them towards more comfortable practices. For example,
instead of saying, “Don’t use your teeth,” you can say, “You make me so hard
when you use more of your tongue.”
Do you see the difference? The first statement is harsh and
an overall mood killer (for both you and your partner). Dissimilarly, the
second statement is actually a soft request masked by dirty talk. If you feel
as though you can’t think up dirty talk at the moment, you can always wait
until after to give your partner constructive feedback.
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