One of the top mistakes people run into while engaging in an
affair is not keeping their infidelity discreet. After all, an affair is only
exciting as long as it is kept a secret from your spouse and anyone in your
life who may blow your cover.
Unsurprisingly, in a poll of 441 people, it was discovered
that “a little over 46% of respondents in a monogamous relationship said they
had affairs” (PsychCentral).
As humans, we are meant to experiment with different parents; it’s all a part
of living life to its fullest!
Check Your Connections
Before you launch into an affair, check the connections you
have with that individual. Does the person you are about to sleep with have
close friends that are also your friends? Do they have family members who
happen to communicate often with your friends or family?
While reviewing your list of common friends and
acquaintances, consider how those connections may interfere with your plan for
a discreet affair. If this person has too many people in their life who know
you, it may be a good idea to choose another person for a secret sexual
relationship.
You wouldn’t want a nosy aunt or a jealous friend to expose
your affair! If you are interested in exploring a sexual entanglement but are
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Maintain Separate Affair Finances
You can probably guess why you may want to keep your affair
expenses separate from your everyday bills and charges! Dinners at fancy
restaurants, drinks at clubs, romps in hotels, and generous gifts should all be
charged to an “Affair” bank account or paid in cash.
Restaurants, clubs, hotels, and even gift shops can all be
easily tracked by a suspecting spouse. In addition to opening a separate bank
account, you may want to consider hiding any debit cards from this account in
an unsuspicious location.
Keep Your Phone Locked and Away
One of the quickest ways to have your affair discovered is
to leave your phone unlocked. In a study analyzed and reported by 10News, it was reported that “50 percent of Americans have
admitted to looking through their partner’s phone, with a large number of
people who believe doing so is a no-no.”
This statistic shows that, even though people feel guilty
about snooping through their partner’s phone, they still feel compelled to do
so. Since it is inevitable that your spouse will try to look through your
phone, it is wise of you to secure your device before they have the chance.
While it is important not to give your partner access to
your phone, it is equally important to not act overly interested in your phone.
Why give your partner any indication that you have something to hide on your
device? Make it a point to act casual around your phone and only engage with
your other partner when your spouse isn’t present.
Tell No One About the Affair
At first glance, this tip may read as common sense. However,
you may be surprised by how many people decide to tell others about their
affair. To keep your sexual escapades discreet, avoid telling anyone about what
you are doing outside of your long-term relationship.
Don’t even tell your best friend! Think about it. If you
tell your best friend about this hot girl or guy you’ve been having an affair
with, who do you think they may tell? That’s right. They’re going to tell their significant
other or another good friend. Then, that person who should have never known
your secret may leak it to your spouse or some other close connection.
Create a Reasonable Alibi
You can’t just disappear into the night on a routine basis
without your spouse wondering where you are going. Before you engage in an
affair, consider what your alibi will be. What location and reason will you
give your partner and connections if they ask about where you are going?
Many people choose work trips as a viable alibi option,
while others mix up their alibi from week to week. Be careful with whatever
story you concoct, as you wouldn’t want it to be easily fact-checked by those
in your life. A reasonable alibi involves a realistic story and a location your
spouse can’t easily find.
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